Meditation ~ A Lesson in Receiving

“Your body is precious.  It is our vehicle for awakening.  Treat it with care.”  ~  Buddha

The calm of a sunset
The calm of a sunset

A meditation class I went to the other day got me thinking about the “giving season”, which is now upon us in full-force.  That most joyous of holiday seasons when we open our hearts and our wallets and give generously, if we are able.  You cannot turn on the TV and listen to a news broadcast without hearing a feel-good story about someone giving from the heart, and thank goodness for these acts of kindness.

Ah yes, the holiday season when children’s smiling faces are seen making their lists for Santa; the smell of sugar cookies and warmed cider permeating the air; and twinkling lights and brightly wrapped packages dazzling us.  Are we all feeling euphoric now or are some of you feeling a tad bit stressed thinking about all that must be accomplished before the holiday comes swooping in?   Here is the other side of this blessed season that the smaller eyes do not see and that we oft-times block out.  This is also the season of serial multi-tasking, between jobs, cooking, cleaning, and immersing ourselves in the streams of traffic and rubbing elbows with the hordes of stressed-out holiday shoppers not unlike ourselves.

Most all that we do at this time of year is done in that beautiful act of giving, for family, friends, and those in need, but let’s not forget the flip-side to this record, the act of receiving, perhaps the less popular of the two, but so very important.

How long has it been since you have done something just for you?  Sitting with eyes shut at the beginning of my class, listening to the instructor talk about opening ourselves up to receiving the breath, the life-force, letting it wash over our cells, got me thinking (ok, not during the class because I was meditating, you know) that we need this ‘me’ time more now than perhaps any other time of the year.

Sun's final rays illuminating the heavens
Sun’s final rays illuminating the heavens

I do believe in the power of meditation and there is a tremendous amount of science to support its benefits but if you just do not feel you have the time or cannot sit still long enough to appreciate the positive aspects of meditating, here are a few thoughts to kick around:

  1. Deep, diaphragmatic-breathing, practiced while meditating, expands the air pockets of the lungs, invoking the relaxation response.
  2. Second only to sunlight, oxygen is the most needed nutrient by the human body.
  3. We have roughly 50 trillion cells in our bodies, begging for this life-giving oxygen.
  4. Diseases thrive in our body in an anaerobic (lacking oxygen) state so deep-breathing delivers disease-fighting energy to our tissues.

The act of receiving is so vitally important and so often forgotten.  During this joyous yet hectic time of year, don’t forgot about you as you get caught up in the excitement of the season.  Whether you feel you have the time or the patience for a regular meditation practice, even 10 minutes a day is a good place to start. Perhaps a good place to begin is when you get into your car before merging into the stream of traffic jockeying for position or when you pull into a parking lot before entering that packed mall.  Sit still and imagine bathing your cells in a warm, comforting blanket of oxygen or perhaps standing in a meadow on a warm spring day, sunlight dancing across your upturned face, breathing deeply of the heady scent of wildflowers, whatever it takes to calm your mind and renew your spirit.  May we all practice a little receiving during this “giving season”. 

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Twenty-Two Years

Twenty-two years ago today

sacred vows spoken

hearts united as one

a tapestry of memories created

so many left to be written.

Happy Anniversary my love!

© LuAnn Oburn 2012

Happy Thanksgiving, with a Grateful Heart

“At times our own light goes out and is rekindled by a spark from another person. Each of us has cause to think with deep gratitude of those who have lighted the flame within us.”  ~  Albert Schweitzer

I often find myself marveling at how much I have to be thankful for in this life.  Some of my greatest blessings, I can now see, stem from the adversities that I have endured, as this is when I have had my “growth spurts”.  As a dear friend reminded me the other day, many seeds begin the germination process in the dark and we are no different (thank you Lisa for that bit of wisdom).  Don’t get me wrong, I relish those times where life is humming along and my spirit soars, full of light and love, when compassion and gratitude seem to imbue my every fiber.  I am blessed to be at such a place in my life right now and recognize that many are not, with so much suffering in the world.

Today, with Thanksgiving fast approaching, I give thanks for all my experiences, as they have made me, well me.  I am thankful for having enough and not wanting for much of anything.  I am most thankful for family and friends, even those friends that I have never personally met but whose blogs I read daily, across the far reaches of this universe, those who touch me in the most profound ways, beyond what they could ever imagine.

For those who live with far too little and whose suffering is great, I pray that there is someone in your lives to extend a healing hand, as I have been fortunate enough to have had time and again in my life.  Let us all be reminded that there is much life to be lived, no matter where we are at on our path.

Blessings to everyone on this special holiday for a day full of light and love.

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We Are Their Hope

We live as though blind

when we come upon your sight;

so much easier

not to see your plight.

~

You sit here daily

with eyes downcast.

We scurry by quickly

pushing you into the past.

~

Where is your family?

Why are you alone?

How can I help?

You look chilled to the bone.

~

This could be me

in the blink of an eye.

It matters not your story,

no reason to ask why.

~

Let’s just do what we can

for those in great need.

Please don’t turn away

or watch as they bleed.

~

The holidays fast approach,

a particularly tough time.

No delays, no back burner;

now is the time.

© LuAnn Oburn 2012

Regardless…

Regardless of the means

with which you came into this world,

union of loving bodies entwined

or tragic circumstances unfurled.

~

Regardless of the childhood

you reflect upon today,

full of laughter, love, security

or fear, rage, and dismay.

~

Regardless of the path

that brought you to this place,

you are indeed a blessing 

to this precious human race.

~

Regardless of why

you may feel set apart,

breathe life in deeply

with a grateful heart.

 © LuAnn Oburn 2012

Have a beautiful weekend everyone!